Monday, 6 January 2014

Islamophobia

The New Statesman recently published an article online commenting on the M&S alcohol 'non-story' and touching on the issue of gender segregation on campuses. Contrary to most articles, it looked at these stories for what they actually are. Although there are still people who do not accept the existence of Islamophobia, not even as a concept, these desperate and rather embarrassing attempts to keep a negative portrayal of Islam in the media have led some people, such as Ian Leslie, to conclude that Islamophobia really is an issue.

Of course we could spend the majority of our precious time defending ourselves against stories and statements that are tailored to demonise Muslims, and quite often we do get caught up in debates on social media etc in an attempt to set the record straight. But I am starting to question whether this is the best use of our time and resources? Are we so caught up in verbally defending our beliefs that we have little time or energy to put those very beliefs into action?
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So why is this a news story? And why is it a story about Islam? 
Until now I’ve been sceptical about the arguments of those who throw the term "Islamophobia" around. Partly this a reaction to word itself, a lazy emulation of the term homophobia (which incidentally means fear of the same, which is of course exactly what it isn’t). But mainly it’s because I don’t think the British people are phobic about Islam or its adherents. 
Measured against any country in the world with a comparable mix of races and cultures (of which there are few) our record of tolerance stands up well. Every day, people in offices and shops rub along with Muslims, laugh with each other, help each other out. The calmness with which British people reacted to Lee Rigby’s killing was impressive. The EDL must have been dreadfully disappointed. 
But a year of stories like the M&S one has persuaded me that our national news agenda is distorted by a deep suspicion of Muslims. Islam animates our media like few other topics, and just as the left’s obsession with Israel overlaps, unprovably but unmistakably, with anti-Semitism, so there is something that just smells funny about the recurrent shock-horror headlines over vanishingly insignificant issues of conduct. Playground spite is being dressed up as "debate". 
Take the row over whether university societies should allow segregated debates: it’s a tiny story affecting about seven people, but because it involves Islam, national figures weigh in and commentators with virtually no knowledge or interest in the people concerned express passionate certainty. 
Earlier this year, the BBC’s Question Time devoted twenty minutes to a discussion of whether Muslim nurses should be allowed to wear the veil when dealing with patients. As members of the panel – none of whom were Muslim - ploughed through their sententious answers, none thought to ask why it was necessary to ask this question in the first place, since nobody had yet been able to cite one concrete instance of the problem it referred to. 
These are not news stories. They are spasms of prejudice. In ten or twenty years time, they’ll be forgotten. But when we’re reminded of them, we’ll feel ashamed of the way they filled the air in 2013.





Saturday, 21 December 2013

Let Us Start with Sincerity

"Sincerity?" I imagine you asking. "What is sincerity?" (I've got an active imagination). Good question my imaginary, critical thinking friends, good question. I can already see (imagine) your hands and eyes floating to the right place to find out what it means. Yes Google Search/Define, because dictionaries are for losers. 

Sincerity as defined by Google Search/Define:
  • Noun -  So it's a thing. I've not made it up.
    • the absence of pretence, deceit, or hypocrisy - Bunch of words that if you don't know already, then start Google defining them in separate tabs but essentially it means that if you have sincerity, you don't have a bad bone in ya'. You get me?
    • "the sincerity of his beliefs is unquestionable" - Used in a sentence.
  • Synonyms - 
    • honestygenuineness, truthfulnessgood faithlack of deceit, integrity,probitytrustworthiness;  
      wholeheartedness, seriousness, earnestness; 
      straightforwardness, 
      openness, candour, bona fides candidness, guilelessness, ingenuousness - Lots of words that should be related to any good person like your imaginary selves.
  • Antonyms -
    • Insincere - You do not want to be that guy. 

Google define have actually added a cool thing; a graph showing the use of the word sincere over the centuries: 







Unsurprisingly, its use is pretty much going downhill which sums up the problem of our world; most of us lack sincerity.However the question still remains, what is sincerity? It's not something you and I can touch physically. It's definitely not a jam sandwich that I would love to have my teeth soaking into right now. So what is it?

The Arabs use the word IKHLAS (pronounced eh-phlegm-laa-s) and it is an important word for us Muslims. It means the following:

Ikhlas is to do everything, internal and external, only desiring the pleasure of Allah. It is to forget the eyes of the people, and whether they view your deeds or not, with the only thing on your mind that Allah is watching you. Source: SuhaibWebb.com


Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him said)

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَنْظُرُ إِلَى صُوَرِكُمْ وَأَمْوَالِكُمْ وَلَكِنْ يَنْظُرُ إِلَى قُلُوبِكُمْ وَأَعْمَالِكُمْ
Verily, Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but rather He looks at your hearts and actions.

Why I am writing this piece, is mainly for you and me to simply to take a step back and think about the things that we are doing and saying. How am I using my time? Is Facebook important? Am I trolling a person via regular critical comments really for the sake of Allah or is it to make myself feel good and make the other person look stupid? Am I speaking to the 'sister'/'brother' for the sake of Allah or do I have an alternate motive? Am I aware of the fact that Allah is seeing and hearing this very moment of mine and the next potential moments gifted to me by His Merciful self? Will He approve of this moment of mine? 

If not, then son we got business to attend. I know I do. 

'Why?' I imagine you asking  (you are quite the inquisitive one). Personally it's because I do not want to become another burden on this earth and another thorn in the lives of the other human beings that I affect. And because of this:

"There are beautiful verses in the Qur’an in this regard, where Allah describes the Abraar [mad level high achievers with loads of ikhlas] in Jannah [Paradise aka home]:

“They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows and fear a Day whose evil will be widespread. And they give food in spite of love for it to the needy, the orphan, and the captive, [saying], “We feed you only for the countenance of Allah. We wish not from you reward or gratitude.” (Qur’an, 76:7-9)" Source: SuhaibWebb.com
Dearest imaginary friends, let us all strive for more sincere hearts, because God knows how much we need it now. As a small guide about ikhlas/sincerity please read through these series of articles on SuhaibWebb.com and watch the video by my awesome teachers +Muslema Purmul and +Jamaal Diwan, the husband and wife double-act.



And God is Greater and Knows more. 

Friday, 13 December 2013

God is Greater

Mental Exercise
  • Clear your mind, let go of all emotion and say with me, Allahuakbar.
  • Say it... Allahuakbar.
  • And say it again... Allahuakbar.
  • No, not like - Nar-e-Takbeer-Allahuakbar-and-the-crowd-goes-wild-I'm-at-a-football-game-with-a-bunch-of-passionate-Muslims-who-love-burning-effigies.
  • Say it softly... Allahuakbar.
  • Let it reverberate in your throat and chest... Allahuakbar.
  • Gently... Allahuakbar.
  • Let everything come to your mind... Allahuakbar.
  • That difficult essay for tomorrow... Allahuakbar.
  • Mum's continuous questions... Allahuakbar.
  • Dad's disapproval... Allahuakbar.
  • That exam you think you're going to fail... Allahuakbar.
  • That job rejection... Allahuakbar.
  • Your ailing grandmother... Allahuakbar.
  • That sense of helplessness... Allahuakbar.
  • That sin committed in total privacy... Allahuakbar.
  • That look you know that was too much ...Allahuakbar.
  • That resentment of that person who does everything wrong but everything seems to be working for them... Allahuakbar.
  • That hate of that tyrant that is killing the millions of his own people who are now starving, dying for no crime but their right for a dignified life... say it gently, softly and calmly Allahuakbar
  • That feeling of hopelessness... say it with a smile, Allahuakbar.
  • That love that got away... there are many fish in the sea... keep smiling, Allahuakbar.
  • The sun, the moon, the stars, the day and night, the mountains, the deserts, the seas and oceans, the trees and all the creatures; from minute to ginormous,  from the weird to the most elegant... Allahuakbar.
  • You and me... Allahuakbar.
  • The Prophet (SAW). His life, his family, his friends, his words, his silence, his actions, his smile, his mercy; Him... Allahuakbar.
  • The Quran... Allahuakbar.
  • Allah...  He is Greater than that is, than that was and than that will ever be.. Allahuakbar.

Explanation

I've been going through some personal problems lately as does everyone. With things on my mind it was time for Maghrib (evening) salah (prayer). As all salah starts, I raised my hands and said Allahuakbar (God is Greater). This is usually a passive act a norm on my part, but for some reason the words took an active form. I proceeded to recited Surah An-Naba. The surah (chapter) eloquently describes the creation of Allah and it made me think, 'gosh Allah is Greater!' He is above and beyond all the problems that exist; He is the One who is the source of everything that is, and that is happening and that will to come. My problems, issues, sins, loss etc are small in front of Him. My emotions and feelings of hopelessness, helplessness and defeat are nothing but being blind to the logical and simple answer that is on my lips that Allahuakbar - Allah is greater and beyond all of this and as long as He exist, there is hope, there is support and confidence and the means to change and attain victory.

I was reminded to let go of emotions as they more often than not cloud judgement. I was also reminded that beauty can lie in the simplest of things if we take a moment to observe. Life is difficult for everyone and regardless of the diversity of the problems they lead to the same human emotions. There is only one thing to do; pick ourselves up and realise that there is a greater power at work. We have no choice but to acknowledge, smile and submit.

The inspiration for this piece is derived from the IPersonalEnrichment.com program which I highly recommend to everyone. The instructor (my friend and mentor) +AbdelRahman Mussa speaks about this concept in a very practical manner.


*ذَٰلِكُمُ اللَّهُ رَبُّكُمْ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ  لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ  فَأَنَّىٰ تُصْرَفُونَ
That is Allah , your Lord; to Him belongs dominion. There is no deity except Him, so how are you averted? (Quran 39:6)